AAP DRUDO SLAAM KYON PADHTE HAIN?Hzrt Muhammad sllallaahoalaihevasallam par salato slaam ka nzrana pesh karna ek tarah se Buland Drjat ki duaa hai.to kyaa huzur hamari duaa ke mohtaaj hain?kyaa hamari duaa se unke drjaat bulnd hote hain?bilkul nahin.unke drjaat buland karne ki hamari kyaa aukaat,jinkaa noor takhlike kaaynaat ke pahle banaya gaya,jo tamaam ambiyaa alaihisslaam ke srdaar hain,jinpar khud rabbul aalmin drud bhejtaa hai.hamaari duaa ke bgair bhi unka drjaa Allaah ke baad sabse upar hai.huzure Akram sllallahoalaihevasallam kisi ummti ke duaa ke mohtaaj nahin hain.to fir ham drudo slaam kyon bhejte hain.huzure Akram sllallahoalaihevasallam par drudo salaam bhejne ke do maksad hain-1. Zikr bulndl karnaaAllaah ne Quran men farmayaوَرَفَعْنَا لَكَ ذِكْرَكَ”aur hamne aap ki khaatir apka Zikr (apne Zikr ke saath milakar duniyaa va aakhirat men har jagah) buland farmaa diyaa”(Quran-94Assharah-4)Allah ne Huzure Akram sllallahoalaihevasallam ka Zikr takyamat bulndga kar diyaa haiaur ham vo Zikr karke Allah ke us farmaan ke shahid v gavah hain.2. Shukr adaa karnaلَقَدْ مَنَّ ٱللَّهُ عَلَى ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِذْ بَعَثَ فِيهِمْ رَسُولًۭا مِّنْ أَنفُسِهِمْ يَتْلُوا۟ عَلَيْهِمْ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦ وَيُزَكِّيهِمْ وَيُعَلِّمُهُمُ ٱلْكِتَـٰبَ وَٱلْحِكْمَةَ وَإِن كَانُوا۟ مِن قَبْلُ لَفِى ضَلَـٰلٍۢ مُّبِينٍ”beshak Allah ne muslmanon par bada ehsaan farmaya ki unmen unhin mein se (badi azmat vale) Rasul (sllallahoalaihevasallam) bhejaa, jo un par uski Aayten padhe aur unhe paak karte hai aur unhen kitaab v hikmat ki taalim dete hain, agarche vo loga isse phle khuli gaumraahi men the.”(kuraan-3aaleimraan-164)yaani Huzur Akram sllallahoalaihevasallam ki vilaadat bhi ham par ehsaan hai.jab koi ehsanmand, ehsaan kaa silaa nahin de pata to ehsaan karne vale ke haq men duaa v shukr adaa kartaa hai.drudo slaam bhi Huzure Akram sallallahoalaihewasallam ds behisab ehsanat ka adna (Chhota) sa Shukr hai.Hum unke ehsanon ka sila to nahin de sakte lekin Shukr to ada kar sakte hain.
Knowledge of our ego is the first step in our inner battle of self mastery. The bad character traits in the ego are our main roadblock to enlightenment, but how can we proceed to purify our selves of those traits without exact knowledge of what we are purifying?
The ego is our place holder in the material world, along with our body. It is actually not one, but a collection of personalities all claiming to be in charge. Each personality is in charge for a few moments, they make all kinds of decisions and plans, and then a new personality takes control of us and either finds those plans reasonable, or does not agree and refuses to carry them out. This explains why we start so many things and seldom finish them.
Multiple Personalities in Your Ego Definition
Each personality in the ego is a complete separate person, with its own likes, desires, and plans. If you observe your actions and behaviors you will find many of them to be incompatible. For example if you are trying to lose weight, sometimes you will have willpower and eat those veggies, sometimes you will refuse to restrict your food intake and will eat that cake. If you then remember your mental state when you took those incompatible actions, you will find that you were two different people when you made those decisions. The person that ate the veggies is not the same person who ate the cake.
So this is your ego definition, a collection of personalities each taking control for a few moments with the end result being we go nowhere in our lives and end up frustrated and depressed. There is hope, though, for those with an aim. If your aim is enlightenment or spiritual development, then you will find some of those personalities agreeable to your task, some neutral to it, and some hostile.
Much of your inner work in finding your ego definition will be in organizing these personalities into “I” and “X”. “I” will be all of the personalities friendly to your inner work. “X”, or in my case “Daud”, will be all personalities hostile or useless to your inner work that must be eliminated or suppressed.
How do we root these personalities out? The best way is to make a list on paper of all of your likes. You will find that your personalities are clustered around your different likes, especially when you like things that are not compatible with each other.
Follow These Four Steps to Map Out Your Ego Definition
1. Divide yourself into “I” and “(your name here)”.
2. Make a list of your likes, find personalities associated with the likes.
3. See which personalities belong to which category.
4. Try to remain as aware as possible of “I”, and do not be sympathetic with “x”, for that is no longer you.
Step 4 is where you get down to business, because you have already acquired good knowledge of your ego and begun the process of its purification by working on its negative character traits. When you have your main personalities categorized, you will have an ego definition that will serve as a roadmap for your spiritual progress, as you develop from a collection of different sub-egos to oneness. When you begin to use your ego definition to your benefit, you have a powerful tool on your quest to inner freedom.
Loneliness is an emotion that we all experience at some point in our lives, and sometimes our only escape from the pain of it is to turn inwards. In this article I will show you a spiritual definition of loneliness that is a call from the universe to remember your purpose in being alive, and bring you back to reality.
As we have all heard a million times, all things in the world are temporary, and the person who attaches themselves too much to anything in the world is like a person who builds their house on the edge of a cliff: eventually it will call come tumbling down. We can become accustomed to living in this way, building our attachments on shaky foundations, and when we lose one of those things we feel sadness and loneliness.
This is where a spiritual definition of loneliness will help you. Time invested in yourself, either just experiencing your spiritual self in silence, or learning about yourself, is the best investment you can make. When everything else turns to dust, you will still have your Self. When your spiritual eye opens and you see reality you will see that the things that made you lonely in their absence had no real meaning compared to the unending reality of your inner self that you now experience.
Reality is what we make of it, so if you are thinking that you are in loss and you should be lonely, just as easily your reality can be that your inner self has arranged things to you come back to it. Maybe you have drifted from your true purpose, which was to achieve ultimate happiness and freedom from suffering, a state that will never leave you or make you lonely.
Tips to Implement a Spiritual Definition of Loneliness
So what do we do when we find ourselves in the grip of loneliness? Here are a few tips.
- Breathe. This will center you and bring you back home, back inside.
- Seek within yourself for the antidote to your suffering, don’t look for an external companion, this is your opportunity to take an inner journey.
- Feel gratitude for this time to spend on yourself. Gratitude will carry you past the suffering and let you focus on the precious time you have to expand your consciousness.
- Meditate. Turn off thought, feel your life force just existing without need of anything else, totally complete in itself and unending.
A spiritual definition of loneliness can get you through times in your life that would not make sense any other way. If you are in this emotion now, try these steps; if not, save them for a rainy day.
Remember this is not the universe abandoning you, but bringing you close because it wants you.